3650 / billionton bluetooth / SP2

Hello all....

I'm having a nightmare..

I just formatted my drive, cleaning everything out, and reinstalled XP home
with SP2 which comes with it's own Bluetooth support.

I have a billionton USB Bluetooth dongle, and the CD
that came with it.

The problems the SP2 situation has caused are:

1) When I want to send photos from my 3650 to my PC, the PC
won't just accept them even though the devices are paired. I have to
right-click on the XP Bluetooth sys-tray icon and select 'receive a file'. A
real pain. It will also only accept one file at a time.

2) Once the file is being received, the PC is automatically dumping it in
'My Documents', and I can't find a way to change this default location.

Any ideas on any of this...?

TIA